Mediation is very different from a court process, which can have huge advantages.  The difference can also concern people.  We are often asked questions such as

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Q: Isn’t going to court the only way to “make sure it’s fair”?

A: Court can decide, but it’s a stranger making big decisions about your family after only a short hearing. Mediation keeps you both in control of the outcome, with a neutral person helping you reality‑check what’s fair and workable in everyday life.

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Q: Will a mediator take sides like a lawyer does?

A: No. A mediator’s job is to stay neutral, make sure both of you are heard, and keep the conversation safe and on track. You can still take legal advice in the background if you want to.

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Q: Is mediation really cheaper than court?

A: In most cases, yes. Instead of paying two lawyers to argue for months, you’re paying one professional to help you reach your own agreement in a handful of meetings, which usually means lower costs overall.

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Q: How long does mediation take compared to court?

A: Court timetables can run into many months, sometimes more than a year. Many families complete mediation in three to six sessions, spread over a few weeks, so you can start moving forward sooner.

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Q: We’ve already started the court process. Is it too late for mediation?

A: Not at all. Many families start down the court route and realise how stressful and expensive it feels. Mediation can run alongside or instead of court, and sometimes helps you reach an agreement that you simply ask the court to approve.

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Q: We want total privacy. Does mediation deliver that?

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A: Yes—mediation is completely confidential, with no public filings or hearings, which is ideal for protecting business interests and family reputations in high-profile separations. Court proceedings risk exposing sensitive details to the public record.

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If you would like to discuss how mediation might be able to help you or someone you know, call us on 0800 206 2258 or email us at hello@familymandm.co.uk . You can also book a free call via our website at www.familymediationandmentoring.co.uk