Christmas can be a very special time for children, but when parents separate the arrangements for Christmas can be very difficult to agree and arrange, neither parent wanting to not be with the children.  There are a number of ways separated parents can creatively split Christmas by considering options such as:

1. Splitting Christmas Day: Children spend Christmas Eve and morning with one parent, then switch to the other parent for the afternoon and Boxing Day.  This can then be replicated or alternated each year.

2. Two Christmases: Celebrate on Christmas Day with one parent and designate another day for a second celebration, allowing for double the gifts and joy.  This can then be alternated or replicated each year.

3. Alternate Christmas and New Year: One parent hosts Christmas one year, while the other takes New Year, this then being swapped the following year, ensuring children experience the holiday with both parents.

4. Joint Celebrations: If amicable, parents can spend part of the day together, such as opening presents or sharing Christmas dinner.

Whatever plan is agreed should have the children’s welfare at the centre and ideally is confirmed in a parenting plan which can also cover other arrangements for the children and communication arrangements.  

If you would like to know more about how mediation can help you resolve these issues, contact us at hello@familymandm.co.uk or book a free call through our website.

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