It can be very frustrating if one parent makes unilateral or multiple changes without agreement from the other parent. There are several ways you can try to address this:

- The best initial step is to try to reach an agreement directly or through mediation to resolve the changes in arrangements amicably and agree how and when changes can be made in the future and what both parents need and expect from the other.  This can be confirmed in a Parenting Plan, which if signed outside of mediation can be something both parents can then rely on and refer back to.

- If there is an existing Child Arrangements Order from the court, it is legally binding, and one parent cannot unilaterally change it without agreement or court approval.

- If the other parent changes the arrangements without agreement and the situation is serious, the affected parent can apply to the family court to enforce the order.

- If circumstances have changed significantly, the parent can also apply to vary (change) the existing court order by showing why the change is necessary in the child's best interests.

Mediation can help parents to communicate and find solutions without the need of the court process.  If you would like to know more about the mediation process and how it can help, give us a call or send an email to hello@familymandm.co.uk

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