Awareness of mediation and understanding how it can keep you out of court

About 66% (two thirds) of people are aware that family mediation is an option to help avoid court and resolve money, parenting, and property issues in divorce or separation. This includes 22% who are very aware and 44% somewhat aware of family mediation as a choice to avoid court.

Awareness of family mediation varies notably across age groups. Younger adults have significantly lower awareness of family mediation compared to middle-aged and older adults

  • People aged 16 to 24 are the least likely to be aware of mediation, with only about 31% aware of it as an alternative to court.
  • Awareness increases in older age groups, ranging from 42% to 64% for those aged 25 and above.
  • This variation likely reflects life circumstances. Younger people may have less direct experience or need for family mediation, while older adults, especially those divorced or with non-resident children, tend to be more aware.
  • Women and those with higher education levels also show higher awareness across age groups.

Only about 30% of people consider mediation as their first step largely because of several key reasons:

  • Lack of Awareness of Mediation’s Benefits: Many people know mediation exists but see it as a last resort or something to try only after other options fail. They often don’t fully understand how mediation can keep lawyer bills down, avoid lengthy, costly court battles and provide effective solutions.
  • Emotional Complexity and Misconceptions: Divorce and separation are emotionally charged, and people may doubt mediation’s fairness or worry it requires both parties to be on good terms, which isn’t always the case. This can make them hesitant to try mediation early on.
  • Defaulting to Legal Representation: People are more familiar with lawyers and the court system, so they often turn to legal advice first.
  • Fear of Power Imbalances: Some worry that mediation requires equal footing, and if there’s a power imbalance (financial, emotional, or legal knowledge), they may feel safer with the court system’s protections.
  • Uncertainty About the Process: Even if aware of mediation, many don’t understand how it works or how it can lead to lasting agreements, making them reluctant to choose it first.

If you would like to understand more about the mediation process and how it can keep you out of court book a free call with us on our website, email us at hello@familymandm.co.ukor call us on 0800 206 2258.

 

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